Many times I have heard people express that they are looking for the person of their dreams, or they have found the person of their dreams. What I wonder is if the first statement is worth while, and is the second statement even possible?
Can something that is truly a dream become reality?
The theory I pose to you is this. To the greatest extent, your dream person is YOU. This may seem like a strange theory, but I feel it has some logic to it. When we dream where is it that we build out dreams from? Our mind. Everything that we create in our dreams is something that has been developed from our incredible organic hard drive. When we dream and other people in are dreams are showing emotion and cognitive functions, it is us masked in different visual forms. Because our brain registers so much visual and audio information, a fraction of which we are actually aware of. It is very easy to dream about things, and places, we think we have never seen before. Also our own imagination gives us the ability to take what we already know and create new thing.
As to our dream person, who is it?
For some I have noticed that the dream person that they have found is not the person that they actually dreamed about.
Personally, the woman that I have come to love, was the last person I would have ever dreamed of. Although this may seem like an insult to the woman I love, in truth it is an put down on my self. I could have never known the true woman of my reality, because I didn’t truly know myself.
In order to get a better idea of who the right person for us is, we must take the time to develop a strong understanding of ourselves. See where our strengths and weaknesses lie. As we develop this understanding we will come to realize the type of person for us the one that complements us, and balances us.
Maybe it is time for us to stop looking for the person of our dreams, and to start understanding ourselves, so we may find the person of our reality.
