Rob Moshe

The last few weeks have been both exciting and hectic for me.  I have been working to redefine my overall game plan towards optimal life fulfillment and at the same time I have been trying to manage the events happening around me.  One of the big things taking place has been a major transition on a board that I am involved with.  The board, a small number of people who are both passionate and hard working, has unfortunately not been run optimally and as a result is suffering some major financial and structural chaos.  The decision was to completely renew the board. To have the old step down completely and allow a new board with fresh ideas and capabilities, unburdened by the mistakes and bad habits of the past to help rebuild the organization.

One of the big messages that I passed on to the new board is the need for a full day of strategic planning.

Up until now the current board in their 8 yr. history had never taken this step. They functioned on random meetings late at night.  As a result they never had the benefit of creating a clear map that would carry them from year to year.

It is this day of strategic planning that allows a company clearly focus themselves on the intentions for the year ahead.  There is reflection on the past year, focus no the long term objectives and planning for the present in order to fulfill their mission.

You would be hard pressed to find a successful company that does not have this Annual Meeting.

So my question is;

If it works for top companies, can it work for you?

Imagine what it would be like if you took a full day to plan your personal year.  To reflect on the year past, to assess your personal, family and work goals.  To determine the best game plan to help you towards your objectives, and to set a solid action plan for the year ahead.

Moving forward from that day you would have a clear sense of how your days ahead will be. You will not have to worry about endless wasted days throughout your year. You will have the opportunity to live your days completely on purpose.

Tell me what you think about an annual personal planning day. How do you think it could impact your life?

Coming from a Coach this is a surprising statement. I’m supposed to have  a positive relationship with you, hold you as creative resourceful and whole, and be highly focused on helping you think.

Whats the meaning here?

Last night was a busy night. I had to leave by 7:30 and my wife was having a group of moms come over to prepare loot bags for a school program. The kids that bed time was the time to fight over everything and through endless tantrums. By 7:15 our patience was really starting to wear thin. By 7:20 we were starting (lets say more in the middle) to lose our cool.

Now the fighters and tantrum throwers are 7 and 5 years old. And even though we sometimes expect them to act like adults, the reality is they are normal healthy kids and fighting and tantrums are part of what they do.

So why do two adults loose their cool over this?

One of the thoughts that came to my mind was that we were getting frustrated because we were concerned about what others were going to think.

You see for us the best response would have been to ignore the kids while they were having a cow. There is no communicating with them when they are in this state. They would eventually calm down and then we could get them to bed.  But because guests were coming we needed to stop this right away, because we can’t have our kids acting this way when they arrive. What would they think??

So we got frustrated, we raised our voices they raised their voices, they tantrumed more we got frustrated more and by the time we finally got them into bed we were all drained and irritable.

Why?  Because We cared about what other would think.

If we didn’t care we would have taken the better approach. The tantruming might have been shorter and the interactions healthier, by the time the kids got to sleep we would have been more relaxed and less exhausted. The learning experience would have been much better for the kids as well.

Sometimes we will break our standards, step out of alignment with our values and goals because we are worried about What others will think? We are so concerned with their interpretation of what they see that we are willing to sacrifice the best paths in our life’s journey.  Not only do we prevent our own growth, but the frustration of being out of alignment causes us to not function at peak performance in other areas of our life as well. When our mind is in a negative state it is hard to accomplish much positive.

So though it is important to care and respect our fellow man. When it comes to making the right choices in life, sometimes you cant give a Damn what they think.

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From day one when I started my program back in 2007,  I knew that I had finally found something that truly connected to who I am.

I love helping people grow ~ Through coaching I am able to show you that  you are creative, resourceful and whole. I am able to coach you towards strategies for success in life that are perfectly suited for your unique self. And above all the coaching process creates independence. You cultivate the path of self-directed learning and are able to carry yourself forward without my constant support.

I love the newness of change ~ I have a strong entrepreneurial spirit. I love to build, created and improve. I love to go against the grain.  I am energized when I have to work hard to bring something into being.  I don’t enjoy sameness, stagnation or monotonous tasks.  Coaching truly indulges my entrepreneurial nature.  Each coaching relationship brings with it a newness, for when in comes to our thinking processes no two people are remotely the same.  As a coach I get to enjoy learning from you as well.  I see new ways of looking at the world, new perspectives.  As well I have the privileged of coaching this greatness out of you.  Coaching you to realize all the potential that you have access to.

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Speak To You Soon

Thought I would try something different in this post.
Usually I try to share an idea (could be read as “opinion) that I have been thinking about.  The struggle that I have had with this in the past two years is, as a Coach I don’t give advice, or tell my clients what to do.  What I do is facilitate my clients own learning. I help them draw from the vast storehouse of knowledge that dwells in their Mind/Heart/Soul.  I ask questions that get them thinking and get them to go deeper.

So how can I balance my blogger idea sharing personal with my coaching persona?

What I want to try in this post is just to share my personal learning that I had today. It is a lesson for me. If it resonates with you great. If not that is perfectly fine. We are all unique.

Now about the Fiber:

Today I had an interesting Squash game.  For the past month I have been making a solid effort to eat healthier and exercise more.  I had expected that I would see drastic improvements in my Squash game but it didn’t seem to be happening just yet. I thought that my current exercise regime might be a bit taxing on my muscles and as a result effecting my swing.  But today I decided to stop focusing on what was not working and instead try to get more positive. I decided to Believe in my ability to win.  And you know what…. I lost the next four games.

Positive Mental Attitude = NADA

My lesson to self from the previous day was Get Centered. So I took a moment to center myself and thought a bit about my approach.  Then a thought popped into my head.  Don’t just believe it in my head, believe it in every fiber of my being.

Positive Mental Attitude In Every Fiber Of My Being = WOW

The next couple of games I was on fire. I went from being clobbered by my opponent to vaporizing him.

The experience was amazing. I could literally feel the energy in every part of my body. Mentally I was insanely alert. My body just flowed and my skin tingled in this incredibly focused state.

As I walked off the court I reflected on the impact of applying this to other areas of my life. The possibilities were endless.

If you have had a similar experience I would love to hear about it.