If you are getting ready to read a post about products you can buy for that ’special someone’ this coming Mothers Day, click back or do another search on Google.
This post is my thoughts on a non or less commercial approach to the day. These gifts are free, and at the same time rare and priceless.
Here are my 4 Top Gifts For Mothers Day.
Love
Though this may seem obvious, given that the theme of the day is expressing your love and appreciation, it can easily turn into something done out of a sense of obligation. Take some time to prepare for the day. For the rest of the week spend a few moments each day (you don’t have to watch all the commercials) reflecting on all that Mom has done for you till now. All the lunches, and scraped knees. Being there for you at many of the important stages of your life. Giving of herself so you could become who you are today. Really build the awareness so when the day arrives your love is truly felt. Be purposeful in directing your love.
Sincerity
Now that you have cultivated your love and appreciation, and you have become aware of your desire to show gratitude, be sincere in your expression. Don’t buy a last minute gift, or something that you like (ie. superimpose your tastes on them). Take the time to pick something that shows your appreciation of the person, and that you care enough to buy something that is significant to that person. And remember its not how much you spend but what you spend it on. A picture collage of special moments in a simple frame can be more meaningful than an expensive piece of jewelry.
Compassion/Sensitivity
Unfortunately there may be people that you know that are not on another persons Mothers Day radar. Maybe there is a friend that doesn’t have children yet or has lost a child. Maybe their children took a wrong turn in life and they have not had the chance to re-connect. Mothers Day does not have to only be about being a Mom, it can also recognize that which being a mother represents. Recognizing those that are caring, giving and nurturing. Every HUMAN being needs to feel loved, respected and valued, and if they are within your range of view they should be able to feel that from you. With this in mind I would like to suggest something. If there is a woman you know that has had a positive impact in your life, take a moment to show gratitude to them. It could be a card, a small gift, or just a verbal statement of appreciation.
Imagine what it would feel like to get only one hug a year, or one moment of encouragement a year. When you truly love and appreciate someone you let them know it on a regular basis. Commitment means you show that this expression of love and appreciation is something more than a one in 365 day event. Love and appreciation is something that should be expressed on a regular basis. This doesn’t mean that you need to by mom presents regularly (though I’m sure she wont mind monthly trips to the spa). It means an ongoing recognition that Mom holds a special place in your life. Calling regularly to see how she is doing, will far surpass any one day of gifts and gratitude.
Ways that you can show love on a regular basis :
- Greeting mom with a warm smile/hug.
- Make it a point to stop what you are doing and give some time to Mom and when you do give her your full attention.
- Call once in a while just to say “I love you Mom†Thanks for _______. (This is especially appropriate when you become a parent and have one of those AHA moments of the sacrifices and giving your mom made for you, just like you are making those same sacrifices for your children now)
- Buy a nice card just because, and write something sweet (yes you can be sweet)
- Say I love you (The obvious is often the most missed)
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As you can see these gifts are not exclusive to Mothers Day. Love, sincerity, compassion, and commitment are gift we should be giving to each other all year round. Don’t wait for a specific date, start today.
Mom. Thanks. I Love You.
Rob
